Jab gussa aadat ban jaye, toh lagta hai jaise pyar kahin kho gaya hai. Madhurta lane ka matlab jhukhna nahi hai, uska matlab apni baat ko sahi dhang se rakhna aur dusre ki baat ko samajhna hai.
Kadwahat Door Karne Ke Kadam
1. 'Tone' Par Control
Aap kya keh rahe hain usse zyada zaruri hai ki aap KAISE keh rahe hain. Agar aapki aawaz mein tana ya chillana (sarcasm or yelling) hai, toh partner defensive ho jayega. Apni aawaz slow aur soft rakhein.
2. Din Ki Shuruwat Aur Ant Positive Rakhein
Sote waqt kabhi purane jhagde na kholein. Good morning aur Good night ek dam fresh hone chahiye. Ek aakhiri acha text ya aakhiri jhappi (hug) pure din ka stress mita sakti hai.
3. Choti Baaton Par Taarif
Jab aap unki kisi achi aadat ko daily highlight karte hain (jaise unka banaya hua khana, ya unka office ka hard work), toh wo unconsciously aapki expectations par khara utarne ki aur zyada koshish karte hain.